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Thursday, 12 March 2015

What's the position on caning?

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This post is about the cane, and we want your feedback and comments. 

When you are ready to cane a spankee, in what position do you like her to be?

Judging from videos, bent over, knees locked, touching her toes, is a popular position, but it is probably very different in the world of the Spankeefinder spankee, some of whom may find it difficult to hold the position.

What's best, feet together, or feet apart. And if apart, just how far. 

A spankee friend of The Roving Spanker, has always adopted a position which she revealed as having a number of properties that qualify as most effective. Of course, the concept of the 'ideal' position varies from spanker to spanker, with probable variations according to the spankee. However let's review this position more closely. She bends over, feet well apart, with hands resting on a low chair or table, some 12 inches or so from the floor. From previous examination, this position offers two advantages. The first is that the positioning of the legs, with feet well apart, both calf and thigh muscles are stretched, keeping the bottom firmly in position, with less scope for movement between strokes.The second advantage is brought about by the differences in muscle stretch between the feet-together and feet-apart position. With feet-together, the straight legs combined with body bend not only create the stretching of the calf and thigh muscles, but also tightening of both bottom and back muscles. In the feet-apart position, there is less stretching of the back muscles, but more tightening of the bottom muscles. As we all know, gentlemen, there is a noticeable difference in sound between a cane stroke landing on taut bare cheeks, compared to a more relaxed bottom. And a taut bottom ensures each stroke achieves the optimal effect and sensation for the spankee. Of course, there are many spankers out there who like a spankee to wriggle around between strokes, but the Roving Spanker finds wriggling bottoms disrupts setting up following strokes, and likely to lead to strokes landing off target.

Food for thought! 

If you have your own views on the subject, feel free to post them.


  1. For me, a crucial point in assuming the position for the cane is that the lady's bottom should be higher than her head - the difference between bending over and leaning over, if you like. Depending on the scenario, I find two positions particularly enjoyable. The first involves the lady bending over the back of a low backed desk chair with her arms bent and her elbows resting on the seat.The extra bending involved in resting her arms, rather than her hands, on the seat, usually involves a modest spreading of her legs. The second involves the lady kneeling on a low bench or stool and bending forward with her hands resting on the floor. Depending on the width of the furniture involved, this usually requires the legs to be firmly together, but the angle this position achieves, especially if the lady can keep her thighs more or less vertical, means the view is no less rewarding. In my experience, the ramrod straight legs/touch your toes position is one that few ladies are comfortable in, and none seem to enjoy. For those reasons, I tend to avoid it.

  2. A great pity no one commented

    Personally I like giving & taking kneeling with legs apart

    I don’t like the skin too stretched as it can be in more classic positions of touch your toes – the spankee can take more that way. Certainly when I am the spankee I like things to last as long as possible!


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