you will find a list of the parties available in the UK. We include
only those which have websites, or appear in social media. There are
private parties that are not publicised, and are therefore not listed
here. With one exception we do not list FemDom events.
If you are new to the spanking scene, or have not yet attended a party,
then click on Party Information for some
useful background information.
2Kings are one of the longest running parties in London. Their parties
are MaleDom, Switch or FemDom type. Run nearly every month, 2Kings
parties usually have 2 or 3 spankees, and the atmosphere is informal
and more freewheeling than some of the more structured parties. It is
not unusual to find the spankees cheerfully discarding clothing during
the event! A buffet is served during the party. 2Kings have a loyal and
regular following of gentlemen. Twice a year, in June and December
there are larger parties with 6 to 12 spankees, with scope for
switching if desired. Contact details: website www.2kings.org.uk
telephone 07887 762477 or 07765 500633 email
Organised by Spankeefinder listed Leia-Ann Woods, Bottoms Up follow a
format where gentlemen have mini one-to-one sessions with each of the
spankees present, involving hand spanking and leather implements.
Caning comes later in the party, except for Miss Woods, who starts the
parties by bending over for six-of-the-best cold canings from each of
the gentlemen. This unique overture certainly sets a lively tone for
the proceedings. There is an excellent buffet served towards the middle
of the party. Bottoms Up parties take place in London approximately
every 6 to 7 weeks. There are usually 6+ spankees, and the parties have
a very loyal following. There is a larger party in December. Parties
are MaleDom, but there is scope for switching after the main party for
those that wish to. Contact details: website
www.bottomsupspanking.com telephone 07595 738626
The Moonglow name has been around for many years in the spanking scene.
Based in North Birmingham their parties are approximately every 2
months. Format is mini one-to-one with themes varying from party to
party. They require paricipants to be members, who are kept informed of
parties and videos by email. Contact details: website www.spankingparties.co.uk telephone 033 33 210142 email firstname.lastname@example.org
Spankeefinder does not list wholly FemDom parties, with this one
exception. Organiser Amy Hunter was one of the best spankees in the
spanking scene, and an old friend, so we have made an exception now she
has gone over to the 'dark side', the world of female domination!
Parties take place in London and have a mini one-to-one format, but do
remember gentlemen that you do not get to spank the ladies, they spank
and cane you. Contact details: website www.theslayers.co.uk email email@example.com
Organised by Spankeefinder listed Danielle,
Generally smaller parties with plenty of spanking action. There is a
mixture of formats, and parties can be MaleDom, Switch or FemDom.
Parties take place in Birmingham and Bristol. Spanking activity is both
in the round, and mini one-to-one. Included are some games with
consequences for the spankees. Contact details
website www.stingingtails.co.uk telephone 07763 870 589 email firstname.lastname@example.org
Please mention Spankeefinder when contacting party organisers
Do you organise parties?
If you are a party organiser then we are willing to list you on this
page. However your organisation must have a website, with evidence of
running parties for more than a year, and have future fixed dates for
parties. Why do we insist on this? New parties spring up all the time
and often disappear just as quickly. We do not want to discourage
newcomers but regret we will only list parties that are well
established. If you have an established party contact us on email@example.com to get listed. All rights of publication reserved.
There is a thriving and high-quality party scene in the UK
where male spankers can pay a reasonable fee for a pleasant afternoon or
evening of spanking entertainment with delightful spankees, often with
excellent buffet food thrown in. Apart from the creating an
atmosphere for everyone to socialise, parties are an opportunity
for plenty of hands-on fun with the spankees.
Types of Party. There are 3 main types of parties. Although organisers may use
different titles, it is usually very clear which type of party is being offered.
MaleDom parties are where the gentlemen spank the girls. Switch
parties are where gentlemen spank the girls, and if they wish, be
spanked by the spankees. FemDom parties are where the women spank the
gentlemen. We do not list FemDom parties
to exact content of a party, each organiser has their own
variation. But as an example, at a Male Dom party, after the intitial
socialising, the action may start by each gentlemen giving an
over-the-knee hand spanking to all the spankees in turn. Then the
continues with the gentlemen using implements, again applied to each of
the spankees. The implements, supplied by the organisers, can be
straps, tawses, etc. Usually, following a break, the action moves on to
a climax by each of the spankees bending over for 6 strokes of the cane
from all of the gentlemen. Another format is the mini one-to-one, which
means the gentleman has a private session with the spankee, usually
with hand spanking and leather implements. Whatever the format of the
gentleman will get the opportunity to apply a spanking, a leather
implement, and a cane to all the spankees.
Size of Parties. Parties vary in numbers of people taking part, as well as the
proportion of spankees to gentlemen. Most organisers have their own
format of total numbers and proportion, and give this information on
their websites. Some party organisers prefer smaller numbers of 9 to 12
gentlemen, others have parties of 30 gentlemen or more. The proportion
of gentlemen to girls varies between different organisers, from 2
gentlemen to each girl (referred to as '2 to1' ratio) to 3 or 4
gentlemen for each girl. As an example, a party of 12 gentlemen with a
2 to 1 ratio, will have 6 girls. If the same party has a 3 to 1 ratio,
then only 4 girls. Cost of parties vary according to content, but
generally 2 to1 parties cost more but provide the highest level of
To add to the atmosphere most parties have a theme, in which the
spankees dress to a
particular scenario. Maids, secretaries, beach babes, nurses, are just
some of the themes used. Remember all the spankees are over 18, most
are in their 20s and 30s, and go to parties because they enjoy being
spanked, and expect the spanking and implements to feel like a
punishment. However all spankees limits must be respected, and
organisers will eject anyone who fails to behave correctly.
Please mention Spankeefinder when contacting party organisers
Spankeefinder provides this information to be helpful to the spanking
community but takes no responsibility for the accuracy of the
information. Contact the organiser to confirm details.