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Spankees   Ladies who offer spanking services - on the receiving end!
Clubs   List of clubs that organise spanking parties
Blog   All the latest on the UK spanking scene 
Escorts ..who mention spanking or submission as an additional service
Directories ..which do list some submissive ladies
Personels   Links to sites with spanking personals
Links a few of my favorite spanking site
Story   David of Spankeefinder tells of his first spanking session.
Your web page  Find out how to get your own Spankeefinder web page

What is Spankeefinder for?

Spankeefinder is to enable spankers to find nice ladies who like to be spanked by generous men.  There are many web sites out there that list escorts or list dominant women but there are few sites which provide a comprehensive list of submissive ladies.  This site makes no claims to be comprehensive but it is the best there is at the moment.

Although dedicated to UK spankees - I have included spankees from the English speaking countries, mainly the US.  I have included other countries to a lesser extent and would love to include more but my shortcomings as a linguist make it difficult.

I also provide simple, free web pages for professional female spankees.  Find out how to get your own free web page on spankeefinder.

We are proud that this web site is entirely free to all users and that neither the web manager or owner make a penny from the site.  We do this because we want to support the thriving UK spanking community.

Respecting limits

It is stressed that all spankers must respect the limits set by spankees.  Failure to do so is moving from a situation of consent to one which, in law, is assault.

The Spankees listed on the Spankees page are offering fun spanking games with no sex or sexual contact.  So, to make any sexual move against them without their consent is indecent assault.  Also, these are people who do feel pain so the limits they set on how hard and with what they can be spanked must be respected.

The ladies listed on the Escorts page offer sexual  services in addition to some submissive services.  Again their limits must be respected.  Normally, escorts only allow mild spanking.

Obviously, some spankees may also offer sexual services and some escorts can take a firm spanking, but this should never be assumed.

What is spanking?

This site is about fun spanking, which is smacking someone on the bottom either with the hand or other implements.  We do not condone severe and brutal spanking that could result in temporary or permanent injury.  Also, even these fun spankings must be fully consented to by the recipient.


To provide feedback, please e-mail me at  However, I receive much spam mail so please put the words Spankeefinder in the subject line of your e-mail so I don't delete it unread.  Thanks.

I am particularly keen to hear from ladies who offer spanking services and to include them in the listing.

Note that this is a fast-changing scene and links disappear quickly.  If you spot a broken link, please let me know.

Listing on this site is absolutely free but a reciprocal link is appreciated


This site is about fun spanking between consenting adults.  Any references to 'girls' or 'schoolgirls' refer to adult females acting out those roles.  In no way do I or anyone associated with this site condone real corporal punishment or activities involving children.

Recent Update History

Note that this is the history of recent new listings.  A few new girls quickly decide it is not for them and ask to be removed.  Their listing is removed from the Spankee or Escort page but the following historical listing is not amended.

  • 8 March 2020.  West London spankee added
  • 2 February 2020. London escort added
  • 1 February 2020.  Hampshire/London spankee added
  • 31 January 2020.  Hampshire/London escort  added
  • 25 January 2020.  Bradford-based spankee added
  • 12 January 2020.  Glasgow-based escort  added
  • 2 January 2020.  London escort added
  • 24 December 2019.  London escort added
  • 20 December 2019.  London escort added
  • 16 December 2019.  London escort added
  • 5 December 2019. Returning Bedforshire switch - spankee

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